Thoughts & Observations
Welcome to the blog, a chance for me to share in small doses (but don’t hold me to that!) thoughts that I hope are largely amusing, potentially poignant, on occasion insightful and rarely blah.
Big T, little t
Traumas in our lives can be of the “Big T” or “little t” variety. Both cause emotional duress. It’s important to recognize and deal with them.
The Catharsis of Writing
When you experience anxiety symptoms—a pain in gut, tightness in the chest, a splitting headache—trying to understand what just happened is important. Journaling is a tool that can help.
Escaping From a Cult
Change comes in many forms. For Lisa Williams, it was breaking free from a cult that dominated her adolescence and a family tied to a church culture she didn’t believe in.
The Mystery of Change
How do you know when it’s time for a change? Sometimes you can dial in to signals. Other times you have to use your gut instinct.
A Domain By Any Other Name
A long-term effort to acquire a specific domain has its share of amusing and connection moments.
The Struggle to Know
Pet owners recognize the toughest decision there is: when to say goodbye. Sharing about how my wife and I came to decide about our beloved Nilla.
Christmukkah!
Interfaith households can pose a holiday season challenge, but also provide the opportunity to be curious and grow as individuals and couples.
A Novel Update
Writing and publishing a novel is hard and tedious work. And sometimes takes longer for unexpected reasons. An update on the publication process for Unwrapping.
The Bifocals Dilemma
I first learned I needed glasses when I was in sixth grade. I didn’t start wearing them until college. Why? The bifocal dilemma.
Talking Turkey
The first time my wife, Terrie, and I both knew our relationship was serious? It had to do with Thanksgiving turkey. A holiday tale.
Office Decor
Some counselors keep their lives to themselves. Me? I like to share little tidbits of who I am—especially in decorating my office and especially when they create conversation that helps the therapeutic relationship.
Mentors Aplenty
If we’re lucky, our lives are filled with mentors, helping us along to personal and professional growth.
Key Moments in Life
Finding deeper meaning—a key moment in life—through a seemingly innocent picture from childhood.
Free to Write For Me
For the first time in 43 years of working life, I’m not being paid to write or edit. It’s weird. And oddly liberating.
Home Sweet
When the cosmic tumblers slip into place, a home envisioned as “temporary” can become much more.